In part one I wrote about how to control the amount of contact that you have with IP's who are too overbearing for their own good. (or yours for that matter) What about the Intended Parents who NEVER call...who seem never to be home or available...who don't seem to take much of an interest in their pregnancy or you at all. I am going to repeat here what the IP's have been through: Most IP's (and I will just refer to the heterosexual couples here for now) have been trying for YEARS to have a baby. They have tried naturally, IUI, IVF, GIFT and ZIFT. Infertility Answers, LLC - What are GIFT and ZIFT? Perhaps they even managed to get pregnant, several times, but miscarried or had a stillbirth or gave birth to a baby who only lived hours because of birth defects....maybe a disease is involved such as cancer or endometriosis. Whatever the case, they have been through a hell of a lot to bring them to trusting some other woman to carry their baby.