The matching phase is one of the most exciting times in your surrogacy journey, and creating your intended parent profile can be the most important step for finding the best surrogate match for you.
Your profile will be the first impression you make on a surrogate candidate, so it is a vital piece of your matching process.
A successful surrogacy journey depends on a good match and a solid relationship with the surrogate, so it is worth putting some work into the design of profile that is both authentic and appealing. By following these guidelines, you’ll be able to design a profile that will you find the perfect surrogate-intended parent connection.
Let’s start with the basic information. As you know, every surrogacy journey and every surrogate is unique. However, there is some basic information a good intended parent profile always includes:
- An introduction to you and your family
- What you do for a living
- Your hobbies (e.g., traveling, cooking, dancing, )
- Information about your home and community
- A personal letter to the potential surrogate
- Photos of your everyday life, including you, your family, your home, and your favorite activities
- Information you wish to include that makes your story unique
Having defined what information should be included, here are a few tips that can help you create a unique profile that shows who you are and what are you looking for.
Take Your Time
Slowing down is the best thing you can do before starting with your profile. Taking your time when designing your profile will let you create a complete vision of who you are.
Be Yourself
Whatever it is that makes you authentic, show it. It’s important to be honest about who you are, what you are looking for, and what type of relationship you are seeking. Don’t be afraid to be honest—it’s the best way to find a surrogate who is looking for a similar relationship as you.
Just focus on accurately representing yourself and your life, and you will find the perfect surrogate. Let your personality shine through.
Include Descriptive Information about Who You Are
Your profile needs to be designed as a way for a prospective surrogate to picture your family’s life and personality so that she can get an idea about whether you are a good fit for her. Therefore, it is important to include information and photos that show who you really are.
The more honest you are, the more likely it is that a surrogate will feel a connection with you.
Share Your Emotions
For many intended parents, surrogacy is an emotional journey toward parenthood. It is these emotions and feelings that inspire prospective surrogates to help families like you, so don’t shy away from them. Use your letter to express how much you appreciate her consideration.
Choose the Photos Carefully
When choosing your photos, make sure to pick photos that capture your personality and where your face is clearly visible. Don’t use old photos. If possible include some pictures with your family, your home, and your pets.
Review Your Profile
Constructive criticism is invaluable. If possible, ask a friend or family member to give you feedback. Also, do a spell check and a final edit. It’s worth making the extra effort to have a clean and polish profile!
Final Considerations
There is no “right” way to make an intended parent profile. Instead, follow these tips:
- Be yourself and do not over think it.
- Always be honest.
- Don’t forget to have fun when writing your profile.
Creating an intended parent profile is a thrilling opportunity to express all of your enthusiasm and desires for your surrogacy journey. By following the above suggestions, being honest, and enjoying the process, you will find the perfect match.
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